Choosing an egg donor: What’s the best approach?

Choosing an egg donor is one of the biggest decisions faced by couples undergoing assisted reproduction treatment. In fact, it may be even more difficult than the decision to receive treatment: Choosing whether to use this method of having children is a relatively simple yes/no question; choosing the right egg donor involves almost infinite possibilities, with lifelong consequences for your child.

The first rule to follow when facing this decision is to relax: Tens of thousands of other couples have stood at the same crossroads before you, and have established happy, healthy families using donated eggs. If they can do it, there’s no reason why you can’t.

Secondly, trust the medical professionals you’re working with. If you’re signed up with a reputable, licensed clinic, you should have confidence in their donor selection standards. You should also be getting personalised attention and support with the decision from the clinic staff who are assigned to your case; if you feel that you’re being neglected, or if you have any doubts about their professionalism or standards, you need to discuss those issues with them ASAP, and consider finding a new facility.

Next, think about your priorities. How important is each characteristic you’re looking for in a donor? How do you prioritise physical attractiveness, intellect, talents? And before you start setting priorities, start by looking over a lot of donors to see who is available. You may find a good fit that you wouldn’t have thought of if you had just sat down and made a list. Remember, there’s no magic formula that you have to discover; every couple has different wants and needs.

Remember also that you’ll never be able to guarantee any characteristics, either physical or otherwise. While nobody can put an exact number on it, personality, intellect and physical development all depend on both nature and nurture. Giving your child proper nutrition, medical care, intellectual stimulation and the ability to develop their talents will account for a great deal of who they become as a person. (This also applies when you’re looking at donors: Keep in mind that not everyone has the same opportunities in life, for example in areas such as education.)

Although it can’t be determined 100 per cent, you’ll definitely need to consider how important it is for your children to look like you in terms of eye, hair and skin colour. Because the prevailing medical wisdom is to tell children how they were conceived, it’s not likely that such differences will cause them to be plagued by doubts of their own once they’re grown up.

But when deciding on a donor, you do need to bear in mind that other people (both adults and children) can be nosy, and ask intrusive questions.

For patients who are particularly concerned about this aspect of the decision, ilaya now offers a service allowing you to see adult photos of selected donors. This service requires an additional contract, and of course there are restrictions on downloading pictures and personal data; to take advantage of this option, patients must sign an additional contract with our clinic.

Finally, remember that there is no such thing as a perfect donor. Don’t look at the decision as a burden; don’t think of it in terms of having just one chance to find the perfect option, and everything else will be a failure. Instead, look at it as a world of possibilities where you have the freedom to choose what will be best for you and your family – both present and future.

By | juli 3rd, 2017|Nyheder, Publikationer|

How can I look younger without cosmetic surgery?

Skin regeneration and rejuvenation techniques based on cutting-edge cell research techniques are allowing people to halt or even reverse the effects of ageing skin by restoring the cells that keep it young and healthy, providing an alternative to cosmetic surgery or chemical-based treatments such as Botox.

Your skin is made up of three layers: the epidermis, the thin outer layer; the dermis, below that, made up of cells called fibroblasts; and the inner layer, the hypodermis.

Dermal fibroblasts have the role of making new collagen and elastin fibres, the materials that keep your skin healthy and youthful.


By | december 20th, 2016|Nyheder|

ilaya’s nye USA surrogat program

USA ”dobbelt lande” rugemor program er et nyt tiltag i international rugemor program fra ilaya. Vores erfaring og samarbejder med klinikker i andre lande, har åbnet døren for at vi kan tilbyde et program der reducere udgiften til ca. 50% i forhold til ”normalprisen” i USA.


By | november 29th, 2016|Nyheder|

Is it possible to repair hernia with stem cells?

Medical technologies based on adult stem cells are offering a new treatment method for spinal hernias (also known as slipped discs), one of the most common causes of chronic lower back pain.

Spinal hernias occur most often in the lumbar region, the lower back, though they can happen at any point. The human spine is made up of bones (the vertebrae) and pieces of soft tissue in between them, known as discs. The discs include a tough, fibrous outer layer, and soft tissue inside. In a spinal hernia, the interior bulges and may break through the outer layer. If a herniated disc presses on a nerve, it can cause continuous back pain, possibly severe; numbness in the legs; or sciatica – pain in the sciatic nerve, which runs from the lower back down the back of the legs.


By | november 14th, 2016|Nyheder|

Stamceller behandlinger tilbyder frihed fra proteser

Stamcelle behandlinger tilbyder løsninger hvor man slipper for protester, fremtiden er at man også kan kurere kroniske sygdomme.

Behandlinger I dag, tilbyder patienter muligheden for at genetablere knogler der ellers er for fraktureret til at de kan reddes, således at patienten slipper for protester. I de nærmeste år vil stamcelle baseret behandlinger give mulighed for at behandle type-2 sukkersyge samt sklerose. (mere…)

By | september 16th, 2016|Nyheder|

International baby Surrogacy

International baby Surrogacy

Couples considering gestational surrogacy face a range of options that can be bewildering, and a number of key questions about the safety, reliability and cost of the procedure. (mere…)

By | juli 19th, 2016|Nyheder|